Is anyone commenting you..

 Is anyone commenting you..

When you go to achieve something do you think that others will just see and leave it? No they comment. Some people pull your legs, some say that is not possible for you, they say that it is not that easy to do, they also question you whether you are sure of what you want to do. Some say did you see your image in mirror, will they do it or not?

It can be your family relations your education are your career are your business or it can be anything. They may comment about your complexion or education. Will they say it or not? Will you stop your efforts because of the comments made by others? You are seriously pursuing your goal. will you stop? Whether others make comments, whenever others discourage you, what should you do?

There is a person who before leaving home. He prayed out loud, "My dear God! I am going out today. Let all of my haters come into my way. Let all those persons who do not like me at all cross my way. Let my enemies should come in front of me!

When he prayed that way, his wife who heard that bizzare desire asked him "why are wishing that way when you are going to strike a good deal today and you have an important meeting to attend? why do you pray so?" for that he says laughing, "Let everyone of them come" and leaves smiling.

Stepping out from his house a person residing in that Colony meets him who says, "God is it the face I had to see this morning! Who the hell has made him secretary to this Colony? Doesn't have even dress sense. Doesn't know how to to knot a tie. He is disgusting" all that was said aloud so that he could be heard.for that he simply Smiles and goes off without saying anything in reply

when he stepped into his office, his collegue who hates him sees him and says, My suggestion was not taken. Can anyone spend with him for a while? He sweats a lot and Smells Like a rat. Should he be given the deal?" Inspite of that insulting comment, is simply Smiles and passes him with a smile. Then he goes to the coffee shop that is in the office and start drinking coffee, he meets is ex- boss who says, "you did not listen to my suggestion not to leave. You should have continued in my department, you went to that department and today you are going to attend a big deal in the evening. What if you don't make the deal? you may lose your job. First of all, you don't know how to prepare a presentation. You also miss some points when you explain things to the customer. I don't know what will you do? There to he does not answer but moves ahead with a smile. When he was going into his chamber, the sweeper there looks at him and says, "this person's shoes always look dirty!" He again Smiles and moves ahead.

After entering his cabin, do you know what he does?

He recalls all the comments he heard. You don't know how to make presentation, you don't know how to talk,you say something miss another point! Is it so? Then how should I make the presentation?

He start preparing, He recalls point to point. What did he say next? The one at home said I do not have dressing sense and cannot knot a tie! Oh dressing sense he takes a blazer and corrects his tie. what else? What did my colleague say? I smell a lot! He takes a deodorant. What did the sweeper say? I don't keep my shoes shining, they are dirty! He polishes is shoes. Then he goes on his job and makes his meeting successful and deal in favour.

What do you learn?

The Person who comment always do it. A person who comments always comments about you. Should you go ignoring it? You should not ignore it! You should hear it, think about it. What others say about you, why others say those things about you. What is true in it what is not. What helps me in it? My mother always scolds me,my teacher always rebukes me, Why? My mother says all those things? What is the reason?

Think for a while?! Is anything lacking? Should develop my nature? Should I make corrections in my behaviour? A champion always moves ahead blindly doesn't he? No A champion should always assess himself. He should make self analysis. Sometimes your friends and well wishers also may not be useful as much as you get from your enemies and haters.

What is required of you here? Positive thinking.

You wanted to work hard and getting prepared for it. When haters and persons who comment about your approach you, do not stop your efforts getting discouraged. Do not shut your ears off. Hear those comments and learn from it. Complaint is a gift, catch it.

If Anybody Complains against us, we should hear it with all the interest. It may help me to correct myself! You do not know what may bring a turning point in your life. Do not miss any. Do not hate those persons who hate you and do not keep distance from them.be a patient listener to the persons who dislikes you. And get benefited from it.